What is this post really about? It is really all about how to build a large and more valuable social network.
There was a blog post I read a while back where someone asked, ‘How can I get more followers on social networking sites?’
The blogger’s reply was, ‘Do something worth following!’
This is where your story comes in! Your story is very important.
That advice may appear a bit harsh, but it’s most definitely correct. As regular users of social networks already know, the Internet is filled with business owners, talking in an average way about average sounding businesses. As a result, they make very little progress with their social media marketing.
Their challenge is that they tend to focus on looking for strategies or software, which they can use in order to attract more followers – when they should be looking at the story they are expecting people to follow and share.
It’s their story that’s broken!
What’s the story?
Every business and business owner has a story. Your story is built around things like:
- The product you provide.
- The quality of your customer service.
- The attitude of your team.
- The unique value you bring to your marketplace.
When we look at the social networking accounts of 99% of businesses in the same niche, we find them saying the same things, to the same people about a service that sounds the same as their competitors. It’s dull. It’s an uninspiring, uninteresting story, which people will not want to embrace or share. People are attracted to (and share) the remarkable, not the bland.
No matter what social media marketing strategy we use, unless we have a compelling story we will be wasting our time. If our social networking updates are just like most other small business owners, we blend into the background. We render ourselves invisible, by simply adding to all the noise on Twitter and Facebook, etc.
So, what’s the answer?
In my experience, the business owners who build the most valuable social networks are those who have something different to say. They have a story or message, which people want to share. They get people talking about them, because they’re worthy of people’s attention. They stand out, because they are not just like the others in their niche. They tell people about what matters to them, knowing it will resonate with the kind of people they want to connect with.
As you know, most business owners on social networks do the opposite. They try to build a large, valuable network by pushing more and more messages out there. They focus on volume not value. They hope that by being busy, their predictable story will spread. Many of them schedule uninspiring messages to go out whilst they are asleep – as if it’s the number of tweets and updates, which is causing the problem.
If you are not seeing the social media marketing results you want, check how compelling your story is. Is it attractive enough to get people talking about you and telling their friends? Are you mirroring what others are doing or are you standing out?
In short: Give your business a story, which people will connect with, embrace and share with their friends.
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August 28th, 2012 on 4:08 pm
Hi Etieno,
I was going through groups today looking for blogs to comment on after posting my own blog in the group and came across yours. Now I have to say there aren’t that may blogs I would say that only 1% of all the content on Facebook was a blog post of value.
Now that’s great for you and me as there arn’t many bloggers but its not great for the 99% who don’t know how to use social media in the right way.
Social media is just that, being social and meeting new people, its not call spam media or advertising media but that is what it has become.
Great post and looking forward to reading more of your content.
Tristram Lodge
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August 28th, 2012 on 7:02 pm
Hi Etieno,
Another thing that business owners have in their arsenal to share is their “WHY”….
Why are they in business…..
Why did they pick that business?
Why do they keep doing the business?
When you really educate people why you do what you do, it creates a connection. People start feeling like they know you, when they start feeling like they know you, it creates trust….trust leads to following and you can imagine where that leads.
Great post and thank you for sharing! Keep up the very thought provoking posts!
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